Tuesday, April 4

Zzzzzzzzzzz

I'm so tired...I think I might be coming down with something.

Well today started positively...I actually did some work, however, now I can't concentrate due to the banging, hammering, and sawing coming from down stairs! Dad is trying to fix something to the cooker...

Thanks to the words of a very wise friend and a very emotional episode of SCRUBS I have been thinking about the things that I, myself take for granted. The majority of people don't realise the value of something until they no longer have it (you don't miss the water until it's gone!). This effectively supports the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder"...yet this isn't always the case and surely when it is, it's bad...whats the point of realising how much you needed something when its too late?

In conclusion I have decided that people need to take the time to consider what they have...take the time to sit and ponder life, to be sure that they don't overlook things that they would be seriously unhappy without...of course you probably won't know this until it's too late but try. Try to express your feelings and opinions fully so that nothing is overlooked. Remember to take time with yourself to sit on the grass.

(18 days)

P.S Make the most of life...this isn't a rehersal!

10 comments:

vix said...

Yes... I agree... sometimes we don't think enough about things... but on the other hand, we can think too much.

I think we have to find a balance between having our heads in the clouds, and dealing with (what can sometimes be) cold, harsh reality.

As to 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'... surely it is better to see something for what it was, and appreciate it, even though its gone... rather than continuing through life oblivious to some of the wonderful things that you have had, do have and maybe will have again?

I don't know. xx

Emmie-lou said...

I totally agree...it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

Tim aka 'pigeon boy' said...

the very phrase i was going to use..i think the word absence implies temporary though. As in, some time away, can make you appreciate things-not losing something forever

Emmie-lou said...

That would be good...if we lost things temporarily...not indefinately...

wenstumped said...

Hehehe! Thats cool! I dont know who u are either! Since u mentioned the 'sitting on the grass' bit I have to share this!!
I once sat on a patch of grass to just spend some time with me! Unfortunately I did this just after the sprinklers had been switched off! It was a warm day and so I din't realise I was sitting on exceptionally wet grass. After I got up and walked a while I realised that my butt was getting cooler and cooler. So I reached dowm to realise that the seat of my pants were sopping wet!!! And Yes!! I had to walk home like that!!!

wenstumped said...

I just noticed another comment u posted on my blog. About City of Angels. One of my fave movies too but where did it come from??! I had'nt mentioned it anywhere!! Me be confused!!

Anonymous said...

Well i got a question for evry 1! How do u explain to sum1 when u feel left out, u dont want them all to ure self but u still want them to talk with u lyk old times. Even though they spent a little time sumwere else (at uni) nothing shud of changed lyk this! I know it must of been hard for them cuming bak into a family but i feel so left out! what do i do?

Emmie-lou said...

If your are that close to the some1 or that good friends then it shoudln't be a problem. Sit them down adn talk to them. If they don't listen or don't care then they are not worth it. They may not have even noticed that they are affecting you or they may have noticed and think that you are overreacting. Either way you've gotta talk to them. Hope that helps!

Tim aka 'pigeon boy' said...

Hey bluebird! I guess its difficult for someone to come back into a family situation after a while away. I know i find it difficult because half of me belongs somewhere else, and i know my sister finds it difficult coz suddenly theres 3 older brothers in the house!

I guess you've gotta keep at it. If you got on well before, im sure its nothing intentional on their part, it might just take a while to re-adjust. If in doubt jus have a word with them and tell them what your thinking

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